Today the person is me. Could feel myself snapping at William since the morning. I don’t like change ; nor uncertainty nor the way his side of the family do certain things. It’s my own perceptions, I know. If I think bad, it’s bad. If I think the good of it, it’s good. Anyway not a saint today.
The reunion lunch timing was shifted from 12 to 2pm two days before. 2pm is late lunch, and it means we need to eat breakfast then a light lunch then go over for the main lunch.
William could spot my triggers today quite early in the game (thankfully); and has suggested me to stay in my room while the kids and mil is outside waiting for time to pass. So yes, the personal space is good. It is helping me recover from my explosive mode to neutral mode.
We had yday leftovers as our light lunch and it helped comfort me too..
Reminder to self: the man visits my whole extended family every week and host them regularly. I only need to appear on a few big occasions for his side. So pls, buck me, Lena ! Late lunch also means it’s a shorter socialising gathering coz we need to leave by 4pm latest.
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