Precious Sundays

Lazing in the car coz Vera is asleep and we are supposed to be attending a baby shower of his relatives. . 
I took the excuse to be the "car attendant " coz I was simply tired of socialising his relatives for the entire month of cny. They have reached my threshold for the year and any excuse to avoid is greatly appreciated. 
Our relatives gatherings are kinda different. I only see most of my relatives on cny/funerals/weddings while for him,  before I came into his world, his relatives parties/gatherings can average abt twice a mth! Yes, u can say they are quite closely knitted. But not really actually. . Which is the part tt I don't understand. . Why do people hang out together simply bcoz they are distantly related? For me, my weekends are v precious and shld strictly be spend on people worth spending on. No time (strictly) shld be spend on socialising with people that aren't impt at all..

Yes I'm emotional. .yes I'm pissed.. its true when they say when u marry him, u marry the entire kampung!  So yes, this is just a ranting post.. and much as I don't like, I hv to tolerate tt the way Cantonese greet their granny and mama sounds the same..it gets confusing and I'm jus pissed..
Argh. . Shall stop for now else I don't think I can breathe. . 

P/s: just change my hp recently and wanna test if it's easier to blog via this too..